Is it too much to break up with your partner if they're not into it like you?

Like I'm a little bit obsessed with incest. I wanna find someone else who's as into it as me and wants to bond off of it and everything else. I've broken up a couple times because they clearly don't want anything to do with it and feel alone but I feel better reading some success stories here. Hope I find my one and only eventually <<3 :/

 

I would say this belongs in the advice section, but to answer this I would say when it comes to someone you want to bond with in regards to your kinks, you can and will eventually meet like-minded people. You just happen to have a kink that's rarely as accepted as something like BDSM or swinging. Keep your chin up, don't lose hope and eventually you'll meet the one that fits. Good luck

 

Incest is a very big fetish and passion of mine and it's important for me to have a girlfriend by my side who is as into it as I am and can understand my feelings, thoughts and fantasies.

When I date someone, I talk to her about it. I take my time, but not too long, and then I see if it's fit.

 

You sound like an absolute catch. A man should be so lucky.

 

I'm sorry that happened, lots of missed love.

That's a pet hope I have, that my partner got to play with one or both parents, ongoing or otherwise. I'm glad you got to be a part of that pleasure and then provide such for your sons. Thank you for sharing <³

 

I hope you find your true partner.

 

Nothing wrong with wanting a partner who is into incest. just know that incest is one of the wildest kink and it is also the kink that is tagged as most negative in society.
my paternal family was into incest. When met my wife, she had no clue I was into incest. After a year of us dating, when I had decided that she is the one I want marry, I decided to tell her about our lifestyle. She was shocked, mortified and was very angry at me. I was sure I lost her because of this, but I did not give up and I stayed with her. I told her that I love her. It took her a year to soften up to the idea. and after a year we were married. she did not join our activities until a few years in the marriage. Once she experienced it, she fell in love with it. I am now happily married to her for 26 years.
Don't give up hope, you have recieved some great advice here by some members.

 

That is very reassuring, that's awesome that you could have that in your life. Thank you for sharing <3

 

I've been in the same boat for a while and it's the main reason I'm still single. It is frustrating as hell but I can't shake it. It's my dream, and it doesn't even seem taboo to me anymore. For better or for worse haha

 

I think you can break up with your partner for whatever reason if you feel like it's not working out for you. If you feel like incest is such a big part of who you are then you should focus on finding someone who is into it. Otherwise you'll end up with someone who isn't the best for you.

 

It definitely isn’t a topic one can just casually bring up.
First, and foremost there must be mutual trust. Between whoever you feel comfortable sharing that secret part of our lives.
Whether just a fantasy, or have actual‘experience’ not easily readily shared

 

Pat I am so sorry that happened. My deepest sympathy for you and your family

 

My spouse told me it'd be weird if I thought about his siblings and him doing things but didn't necessarily feel weird if I wanted to think about mine. The problem is I definitely want to have a more complicated love relationship with his sister but would want to involve him because of how incest gets me off. Thankfully we're ethically non monogamous (ENM) so I can get the needs elsewhere with roleplay. I wouldn't say ENM is for everybody, but it's nice to recognize that no single person can meet all of the distinct needs of a person